We are unsatisfied and finally frustrated when we see that we are not living the life as good as them.
Disappointment and unsatisfaction turned into grudges we held against our spouse.
But but... have we look around us... and be thankful for the situation we're in right now...?
I always remind myself to count the blessing that I have. Be grateful to the little things that my family have done for me... then I realised.....
1) I have a home we called our own.
2) We have 2 healthy kids who love us so much.
3) I have a husband who help with house chores, though not much, but NEVER complaint about how I did/didn't do my chores..
4) on and off we able to go for holiday and short trips
and the list go on and on....
Just if we keep being grateful to what we have, those time we spend together as family, those simple cooking we had... etc etc... we will have less fights and arguments.. because we would not be so mean and calculative or judgmental about how a good husband/wife should behave.
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